trib•ute:
a : something given or contributed voluntarily as due or deserved; especially : a gift or service showing
respect, gratitude, or affection
b : something (as material evidence or a formal attestation) that indicates
the worth, virtue, or effectiveness of the one in question.


This blog is our tribute to a man worth knowing. A man worth loving. A man worth remembering.



Wednesday, May 19, 2010

An Introduction....

One thing I've learned....it's difficult to find someone you can travel with and really enjoy yourself. When you do, even the toughest moments ("Oh crap, we were supposed to turn there, and the next spot to turn around is 23 miles down the road!") can become the most cherished memories (and retold with much exaggeration). And so it was with myself, my husband Justin, and my sister Sara. I mean, really, how could you not enjoy strolling along the Tiber River in Rome at dusk, when suddenly Justin jumps onto a ledge, and in the process rips open his only pair of pants, shines his pasty white thigh to the beautifully tanned Italian population, pulls a butt muscle, and has to do the walk of shame 3 miles back to our apartment along crowded Roman streets while trying to pretend he isn't missing almost his entire left pant leg? And yes, I did have to massage his aching derriere the next morning....


Sadly, on December 25, 2009, tragedy struck, and Plumey's travels were cut short. And so here I am planning our 6-year anniversary without him.

After deciding on a roadtrip to Alaska (something he always wanted to do), Sara and I were at a loss. Where was the other 33 and 1/3 % of our travel group? (Actually, he was more like 45%....) And that's when it happened. I remember it like it was yesterday....and in fact, it was. We were discussing the trip over a delicious bowl of Pho, when it hit us. We are bringing him with us...and we are leaving him at every place we stop (something I admit I wanted to do more than once in our previous travels). We figured Justin would love it because it's like he's marking his territory on every tree and fire hydrant along the way.

Ok, so, you are probably wondering what in the world Pieces of Plumey means? As for Plumey, it's a shout-out to Justin's work buddies, half of whom gave him the nickname for his incessant gawking at the mill's steam plumes; the other half called him this because of the plumes of aroma that flowed as a result of his constant "vapor-ing" (his words, not mine).

Pieces--those are the little bright spots that Justin gave our lives. The gifts we refuse to forget. And these little pieces are what we are going to "bottle" and gift along all of our future travels, beginning with Alaska.

Here's the plan: We are putting a picture and a memory of Justin in a little glass bottle at each stop along our journey.


We will include this website address in the hopes that each person stumbling upon these memories will log on to the blog and share their story of how they "met" Plumey. We will also be documenting everywhere we leave a bottle, via this blog, with posts and photographs.

Come with us by helping us to think of interesting and unique places to leave these little gifts!

The first leg of our trek begins Friday, May 21, our 6-year anniversary. Follow us for the next two and a half weeks on our first adventure with Pieces of Plumey!


27 comments:

  1. I'm so very excited for Alaska!!

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  2. I'm excited for you girls!! And very proud you are doing this in memory of Justin. With such a great introduction, you've got my attention for this trip. I wonder how many Dams are between here and Alaska?

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  3. I'm bawling my eyes out right now. I love you guys and I think you're amazing for continuing to honor and remember him. Because of this tragedy, I'm trying every day to treasure each moment of life, big or small. Have fun on your trip and HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!! I'm glad you'll be doing something fun!!! Krista

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  4. All I can say without getting chocked up is..THIS IS AWESOME!!! I am very excited for your great adventure! I can't wait to see if the people write in and tell you what happened to the piece of Plumey they found! Have fun, be safe, and no fighting ;) Love you both!!

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  5. You guys(gals) are gonna have so much fun, im so jealous... This is the coolest most awesome idea ever... Justin would love it...

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  6. Well, now that my eyes have had some time to clear the tears...honestly, this is the GREATEST idea I've ever heard. Justin would be so happy and no doubt would have had so many plans for this trip. I'm so happy that we will all be posted on how the trip is, and can't wait until people find all the small treasures. Justin will keep on affecting people's lives through this. Have an awesome trips ladies and can't wait to see pictures!! Love you both to pieces.

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  7. Hey friend, Justin loved being the center of attention...this couldn't be more up his alley! He always knew that everyone wanted a piece of him. Now is their chance. Jeff and I are excited to see where this goes.

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  8. Oh good Ive been due for a good cry... All the post before this one said everything I wanted to say. I am so proud of you for coming up with this wondwerful idea and doing it. Justin would have been too. I love you soooo much and think about you all the time. Have a great time and make more memories on the way.

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  9. Wow, this is really awesome!! I never got to meet Justin, but
    i wish I did! Soon I will be able too..I hope u guys have a good and safe trip
    And Iam jealous too..have fun!! Talk to u guys soon!!

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  10. This is such an incredible idea and I respect you girls so much for doing this!!! I hope you girls have a safe trip there and back and cant wait to see the daily posts of your journey!! Thank you for loving him Amber and always being there for him then and now!! He truly was lucky to have you!! Happy Anniversary!!! Stay strong...we will see him soon!! xoxoxo

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  11. This is Awesome and i hope you girls have a fun and safe trip :)

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  12. This is an incredible and memorable way to celebrate Justin <3

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  13. So...I made a complete fool of myself reading this at work, dumb idea. All the ladies here think you guys are amazing, they love hearing about you and Justin whenever something like this comes up. I'm sooooo proud to say I know you both. Justin would think this is the sweetest thing ever. I can't wait to hear about every step of the journey. Have a blast together. I know you guys will do crazy things in his behalf. Can't wait to see pix!!!

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  14. When Jutty was little he used to love to "back-up" into a tree or bushes and just kinda let the branches enfold him until he disappeared. He would just STAY THERE, very still and quiet, in his own little place. (of course this drove us crazy when we were looking for him!) Can you leave a "piece" of Plumey tucked back in some cozy branches? LOVE to you....Nanny OXOXO

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  15. We most definitely will Nanny! Thank you so much for the idea, and the wonderful memory that goes with it.

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  16. What an amazing, beautiful tribute to one so loved. May your trip be joyful and full of fun as well as free of break downs and flat tires. But if they do occur, think of Plumey and make it part of the adventure. Looking forward to this wonderful story...Stay safe and be alert...the world needs more lerts. OXOXOXOXO

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  17. I remember the first time Justin came to our house. I just met him, and he saw a fur rug on our floor and immediately asked if we ever lay on it naked.

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  18. TODAY'S THE DAY!!! Thank you so much for doing this, girls! Justin would've LOVED this, and so do we! Will you save a bottle for an area that you see a bear in? (FROM A SAFE DISTANCE!!) You know he would've BECOME that bear (remember the porcupine?!) Happy travelin'! LOVE YOU

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  19. "HAPPY ANNIVERSARY", Amber. We love you very much. Tim and I are enjoying reading the different comments. Tim's favorite one is about sleeping naked on the fur rug. That is SO Justin. Have a wonderful adventure, girls. XOXOXOXO Mama Peggy and Tim

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  20. I think this is sooo awesome and I am amazed at your personal strength. I have never met you personally, but have heard great things (& tragic too) from my mom (Sally Ward) & sisters (Liz & Kelsey.)♥ This is amazing! ~ Jill Zimmermann

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  21. I'm sure Tipton would have loved the FINER THINGS in Alaska! Perhaps you could place the next bottle with your pinky extended!:) Have Fun Girls!! OXOXO Nanny

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  22. Amber.... Thinking of you and just want to say I think this is an amazing thing your doing in memory of Justin. Your strength is shining through and because of that the world gets to share a piece of Justin and your love for him.I love you guys, take care, and have fun in Alaska.:)

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  23. Ladies.... I remember being so darn jealous of you when you came into my pub on Monday and told me you were heading to Alaska... What an amazing thing you are doing... You left a huge impression on me when you came in cause you seemed like two girls just out for a good time and I thought it was cool. Now the impression is everlasting. I have piece Number 4 :) xoxo good luck on your trip.

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  24. Amber and Sara.... Thank you for leaving Memory #9 and thanks for sharing your memories of Justin with us. We enjoyed meeting both of you. We wish you well in all that you do and hope the opportunity arises to meet again some day (and maybe another dance). Greg and Valori Marshall (Gakona Lodge Alaska)

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  26. Hi I wanted you to know that I found Memory #12 in Denali. I took a picture of it, it touched me. Thank you.

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  27. I love your blog and the things that you are creating in your life. Not only remembering him but allowing his spirit and memory to live on through you. May you find peace and a little sleep in this process. It takes guts to live and survive grief. Thank you for visiting my blog and telling me your story. We both have lost good men gone too soon. I take comfort in your words as I hope you take comfort in mine. Knowing that together we are not alone. For me it's now trying to figure out what my life looks like without him here. And figure out how to move forward the best way the kids and I can.
    Your traveling with him and the items of love that you leave behind is beautiful and healing. Feel his presence with you and surround yourself in his beauty and how much he loves you.
    Peace, Love, and Light to you on this amazing and yet tragic journey that you are on.
    Blessings to you dear friend.
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